Tuesday, August 12, 2025

Starting the Day Right



 Putting Him first. Jesus and coffee. Revelations 
from Jesus. The feeling of my morning in words:
"I am tired, I am weak, I am worn."
The old hymn,  Lead Me Home.

He showed me this morning that I've had it all wrong.
I have wanted everyone to know how strong I am, how
unflappable. Always smiling, always full of faith and optimism.
I pictured you gathered around my (closed!) coffin saying
things like, "She was so brave--she never got down or 
discouraged." I was wishing to portray a false image to you.
But Jesus says, 
"My grace is sufficient for you, FOR MY POWER IS
MADE PERFECT IN WEAKNESS."
2 Corinthians 12:9

The very first song some of us learned as children was,
Jesus loves me, this I know,
for the Bible tells me so.
Little ones to Him belong,
THEY ARE WEAK, BUT HE IS STRONG.


Well, big ones are weak, too, but He is still strong for me.
He covers me with His grace--favor I do not deserve.
He is patient with my discouragements. 
He blesses me in spite of myself!
And...I have the assurance of eternal life with Him in
my heavenly mansion!
I hope to see every one of you there!

Thursday, July 17, 2025

A Chapter In My Life Is Through


It is my Grubbs Infiniti chapter.  When I was widowed in 2010, my children and I decided that leasing a car might be a good idea so that I could always be in a newer vehicle. I had already owned two Infinitis, as I remember.  Rob spotted a great lease deal on a sign at Grubbs, and I leased my first. Three years later, my second, and so on until July of 2021. 

My leases go back to well before my cell phone camera. I'm sure there were at least five, maybe six. I loved leasing from Grubbs, because they had a lovely customer lounge with fancy coffee machine and really good snacks.  It was an outing for me. I did many a Bible Study Fellowship lesson there! I loved the Christian music which played in their waiting rooms. I prepaid for maintenance services through my lease, and none of my Infinitis were serviced anywhere else ever! I thought it was kind of a bougie place!

Here I am with my 2018 model. It was the prettiest blue.


And here I am with my 2021 sleek black model.


When I went in in 2021, I said that I needed my lease to stay about the same (as everyone says, I've since realized!) So it did go up, but but maybe (only!) $50/month. So last year, 2024, I began to wonder why I wasn't getting calls about re-upping my lease. I checked and found out that it was because I had a four year, not a three year lease. Now don't even think of telling me I should have read what I signed. I have already beaten myself to a pulp.
But...
No one ever mentioned 48 months to me. Or 4 years. No salesman or finance person. Those words did NOT fall on these ears. 
But I have no legal standing. I signed the lease. I watch
 Judge Judy.
I wonder if they all gathered around and high fived each other after I left? 

For better or worse, I have now decided to buy out my lease rather than shop for a new but less expensive car. Mine only has 27,000 miles, and I put $$$ new run flat tires on it to drive to Galveston for our cruise. (Another reason for a 3 year lease--no new tires)
Incidentally, Infiniti stopped making a sedan in 2024. Now nothing but SUVs.
So today I had to make the trek to Grubbs in Grapevine in order to hand them a check for my car. Valet service and the good snacks have fallen by the wayside. You're lucky to get a bottle of water now. But the salesman who was helping me said I must bring it in and sign papers in person. 
I said, "Please tell me this is not so you can attempt to sell me the extended warranty again. I have already decided I am not going to take it and told you ten times."
"No, no, the State of Texas requires that we examine your car before you can buy your car." I'm still puzzling over that, which  took forever. 

Then the salesman told me I had to go to the Finance Department and that it would be 15 minutes wait.  I was watching the clock trying to get away before the heavy traffic.
Finally the finance person came and got me, and guess what?
Yes, her #1 goal was to sell me the extended warranty. She acted like I was an imbecile for refusing. 
She had a really slick way of presenting it which made it sound like the warranty was only $1000, while never telling me it was $2880--or $3880 with maintenance.) When I realized what was happening she got abrupt and surly, rudely asking for her pen back before I had a chance to give it to her, and letting me leave without a goodbye or thank you.
But, you know what? I'll just bet there was no high fiving!
They knew I was up-set.


I'm sad tonight. I've loved my Infinitis (oh, she also curtly informed me as I wrote my check that Infiniti ended in an "i") Surprise! In at least 20 years of owning them I actually know that! 
I'm really feeling confident about my decision though. 
I think I have my forever car.
Except that, as I've shown you before, it is crooked.
No matter how well I park, it ends up like this.













Wednesday, May 21, 2025

On The Sea Again!!!

Yes, after two traveless years for me, Susan and I were back onboard Royal Caribbean's Mariner of the Seas for a cruise! Usually when I blog about our adventures, I try to make a "long story short." For this one, I will try to make a "short story as long as possible!" (Thanks, Myron Ice, for teaching me that!) We did no excursions, sat at a table for 2, and had no production shows to photograph except an excellent ice show where we took no pictures. But...we had a wonderful time.


Boarding was very smooth, for me at least! Susan is off parking the car!



That's my cute personal valet toting my walker and all my medical equipment!


Our cabin was spectacular! I got a real bargain on upgrading us to a junior suite which just happened to be on the very back of the ship. That was good news and bad news. The bad news (just for me) was that it was as far as one could get from the elevator. This is me later in the trip after hiking down the hall to home. 

   

The good far outweighed the bad...It had a huge balcony looking out on the beautiful wake of the ship; it was wonderful for sitting out, especially for breakfast; it also had a big comfy arm chair inside and plenty of room for us and our stuff. 



And then there was the coffee maker. Or maybe it was the coffee creamer! Susan made me a latté which turned out to be the first of several! I've already ordered Lavazza coffee and plan to order Copper Cow Latte Creamer when the ones I collected run out!









In the elevators daily...


Here I am rarin' to go on Tuesday morning!


Right away my observant valet spotted (heard) the piano player on one of the elevators. She navigated us right on there! Here are still pictures, but she got a video which I will post separately. 

My photographer is the best!


We had late dinner so we could have appetizers every night!

These could have been my dinner!



Where is my little umbrella?

A fellow cruiser gave us our leis.


We loved lunch in the Windjammer!
Reasonable
Unreasonable. Chili fries with 3 Dr. Peppers
Totes reasonable
But more ice cream? Oh yeah!


Zooming.


I guess our Big Event was...getting our hair done in the salon on the ship. That was one thing Susan had never done before! We felt very luxurious but can't say we looked totally that way!
Here are some pics!



At lease he didn't singe my white hair with the curling iron!
HaHaHa

Beautimous!
Priceless.



Most efficient waitstaff I have ever had on a ship! And delicious food!

A sad sight. Our departure luggage tags already!


Being able to drive to Galveston and cruise is a great thing! This short cruise was just right for me in my circumstances, but the big ships cruise from Galveston, too. It is such a treat to be pampered and surrounded by the beauty of the Caribbean. Thank you to my Susan, who came home less rested and pampered than I.