A Chapter In My Life Is Through

It is my Grubbs Infiniti chapter.  When I was widowed in 2010, my children and I decided that leasing a car might be a good idea so that I could always be in a newer vehicle. I had already owned two Infinitis, as I remember.  Rob spotted a great lease deal on a sign at Grubbs, and I leased my first. Three years later, my second, and so on until July of 2021. 

My leases go back to well before my cell phone camera. I'm sure there were at least five, maybe six. I loved leasing from Grubbs, because they had a lovely customer lounge with fancy coffee machine and really good snacks.  It was an outing for me. I did many a Bible Study Fellowship lesson there! I loved the Christian music which played in their waiting rooms. I prepaid for maintenance services through my lease, and none of my Infinitis were serviced anywhere else ever! I thought it was kind of a bougie place!

Here I am with my 2018 model. It was the prettiest blue.

And here I am with my 2021 sleek black model.

When I went in in 2021, I said that I needed my lease to stay about the same (as everyone says, I've since realized!) So it did go up, but but maybe (only!) $50/month. So last year, 2024, I began to wonder why I wasn't getting calls about re-upping my lease. I checked and found out that it was because I had a four year, not a three year lease. Now don't even think of telling me I should have read what I signed. I have already beaten myself to a pulp.

But...

No one ever mentioned 48 months to me. Or 4 years. No salesman or finance person. Those words did NOT fall on these ears. 

But I have no legal standing. I signed the lease. I watch

 Judge Judy.

I wonder if they all gathered around and high fived each other after I left? 

For better or worse, I have now decided to buy out my lease rather than shop for a new but less expensive car. Mine only has 27,000 miles, and I put $$$ new run flat tires on it to drive to Galveston for our cruise. (Another reason for a 3 year lease--no new tires)

Incidentally, Infiniti stopped making a sedan in 2024. Now nothing but SUVs.

So today I had to make the trek to Grubbs in Grapevine in order to hand them a check for my car. Valet service and the good snacks have fallen by the wayside. You're lucky to get a bottle of water now. But the salesman who was helping me said I must bring it in and sign papers in person. 

I said, "Please tell me this is not so you can attempt to sell me the extended warranty again. I have already decided I am not going to take it and told you ten times."

"No, no, the State of Texas requires that we examine your car before you can buy your car." I'm still puzzling over that, which  took forever. 

Then the salesman told me I had to go to the Finance Department and that it would be 15 minutes wait.  I was watching the clock trying to get away before the heavy traffic.

Finally the finance person came and got me, and guess what?

Yes, her #1 goal was to sell me the extended warranty. She acted like I was an imbecile for refusing. 

She had a really slick way of presenting it which made it sound like the warranty was only $1000, while never telling me it was $2880--or $3880 with maintenance.) When I realized what was happening she got abrupt and surly, rudely asking for her pen back before I had a chance to give it to her, and letting me leave without a goodbye or thank you.

But, you know what? I'll just bet there was no high fiving!

They knew I was up-set.

I'm sad tonight. I've loved my Infinitis (oh, she also curtly informed me as I wrote my check that Infiniti ended in an "i") Surprise! In at least 20 years of owning them I actually know that! 

I'm really feeling confident about my decision though. 

I think I have my forever car.

Except that, as I've shown you before, it is crooked.

No matter how well I park, it ends up like this.

On The Sea Again!!!

Yes, after two traveless years for me, Susan and I were back onboard Royal Caribbean's Mariner of the Seas for a cruise! Usually when I blog about our adventures, I try to make a "long story short." For this one, I will try to make a "short story as long as possible!" (Thanks, Myron Ice, for teaching me that!) We did no excursions, sat at a table for 2, and had no production shows to photograph except an excellent ice show where we took no pictures. But...we had a wonderful time.

Boarding was very smooth, for me at least! Susan is off parking the car!

That's my cute personal valet toting my walker and all my medical equipment!

Our cabin was spectacular! I got a real bargain on upgrading us to a junior suite which just happened to be on the very back of the ship. That was good news and bad news. The bad news (just for me) was that it was as far as one could get from the elevator. This is me later in the trip after hiking down the hall to home. 

   

The good far outweighed the bad...It had a huge balcony looking out on the beautiful wake of the ship; it was wonderful for sitting out, especially for breakfast; it also had a big comfy arm chair inside and plenty of room for us and our stuff. 

And then there was the coffee maker. Or maybe it was the coffee creamer! Susan made me a latté which turned out to be the first of several! I've already ordered Lavazza coffee and plan to order Copper Cow Latte Creamer when the ones I collected run out!

In the elevators daily...

Here I am rarin' to go on Tuesday morning!

Right away my observant valet spotted (heard) the piano player on one of the elevators. She navigated us right on there! Here are still pictures, but she got a video which I will post separately. 

My photographer is the best!

We had late dinner so we could have appetizers every night!

These could have been my dinner!

Where is my little umbrella?

A fellow cruiser gave us our leis.

We loved lunch in the Windjammer!

Reasonable

Unreasonable. Chili fries with 3 Dr. Peppers

Totes reasonable

But more ice cream? Oh yeah!

Zooming.

I guess our Big Event was...getting our hair done in the salon on the ship. That was one thing Susan had never done before! We felt very luxurious but can't say we looked totally that way!

Here are some pics!

At lease he didn't singe my white hair with the curling iron!

HaHaHa

Beautimous!

Priceless.

Most efficient waitstaff I have ever had on a ship! And delicious food!

A sad sight. Our departure luggage tags already!

Being able to drive to Galveston and cruise is a great thing! This short cruise was just right for me in my circumstances, but the big ships cruise from Galveston, too. It is such a treat to be pampered and surrounded by the beauty of the Caribbean. Thank you to my Susan, who came home less rested and pampered than I.

 

Need Something For Which to be Thankful?

Okay, today be thankful you didn't...

order two "cool" sweatsuits from Amazon which ended up looking like pajamas, procrastinating until the very last day they can be returned, having to make yourself look decent to go to the UPS store, gather up your oxygen equipment without which you cannot breathe, load into the car, and head out. Upon arrival, unload walker from trunk, attach its basket, load said oxygen in basket (it has to breathe, too, you know!) and said pajamas in pouch, and head in. When turn comes, nice man scans phone code and states that it is just for ONE item. Return that item, and return to car to frantically search phone for other bar code. Miraculously found it and..It turns out they were, indeed, both covered by the first one!

JUST KIDDING!!!

I love that I have a car and can drive and walk into a store, and my oxygen is my friend! Both times I came and went, nice friendly folks opened the door for me. When I was back in the car searching in my phone, a lady offered to come help me, cause she had had trouble accessing her code, too!

It looked very much like rain when I finally got myself presentable to undertake this task, and it did not rain one drop on me as I completed it! That was nice.

I will admit that I don't remember ever thanking God in my long life for the ability to breathe without supplemental oxygen. I should have! And maybe you will want to also.

God is "rich in love and slow to anger; His love is great and His heart is kind. For all His goodness I will keep on singing...

Ten thousand reasons for my heart to find."

Thinking About My Obituary

I got up singing the beloved old hymn, “Jesus Paid it All.” Particularly this part: “Child of weakness, watch and pray. Find in ME your all in all.” He knows that I am weak. I do not need to feel like a failure and a disappointment to Him if (when) I am weak.

Recently I have been striving toward being remembered as one of those people who was always smiling (I might do pretty good at that)

...and who never fell prey to weakness or fear or discouragement. I can’t seem to nail that part. I am way too human and, well…weak. “Child of weakness” That’s  me. Is that you, too? Well, we have someone waiting to help if we turn to Him. Someone who made us and understands and is not judgmental. Someone who is our all in all. The strength we need in our weakness. Because He loves us more than we are able to comprehend.

"Dear Father, help me to rely on you for strength, because today I just can't find it on my own."

And Jesus said back to me,

"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."  II Corinthians 12:9

I will not mind being remembered as "weak," because my weakness enabled Christ's power to rest upon me.

I Think I Feel Like Cooking!

                                      

I made a list of all the ingredients for this delicious sounding Garlic Parmesan Chicken. Oh...it's "Crack" Garlic Parmesan Chicken, and it went viral!!! It's a cinch to be out-of-this-world! Doesn't that sound like fun?

Well, I procrastinated on having my fun culinary adventure until the chicken was expiring, that being today. Okay, here we go! 

I'm excited! (Not really)

First, I had to unload about 75 cans of Dr. Pepper and bottles of water to get to my big slow cooker. I carefully fitted it with a plastic liner, which actually doesn't fit at all. I got out my 2 chicken breasts, not realizing the chicken must have been named Dolly Parton. They were enormous, but I didn't realize that might be a problem. I dutifully and generously sprinkled them with pepper and, for the first time, salt substitute. I'm not supposed to have much salt, so I was proud that I was being so good! (Might have been better off if I had tried it out first.)

Everything but the Dolly Partons

Then I added my jar of Garlic Parmesan Dressing by Buffalo Wild Wings, a cup of chicken broth, and a half cup of milk. I topped that off with an 8 oz. block of Philadelphia cream cheese and started the ol' cooker on "high." I was thinking at this point that tomorrow I might make a cake.

I just might have dozed off for a little nap, because when I next checked the slow cooker it was not cooking very slow. I turned it down to "low" and stirred everything up a bit. I think I may have added a bit of broth and milk, because the liquid part in relation to the chicken part already seemed a little disproportionate.

Later, I had completely lost track of how long I had been cooking my chicken. But I determined that it was done and got out my new handy dandy shredder. No two forks or hand mixer for me.  I had the real thing! The real thing just wasn't quite up to the Dolly size you know whats.

When I accomplished the shredding, like a dummy I dumped all that shredded chicken into my small amount of sauce! Actually, this may have been when I added some broth and milk, cause I still had rotini pasta to add! I also added frozen peas at this point, which was kinda my idea.

I got out my beautiful pasta pan and my clip on drainer (also new!) and brought my water to a boil. It took 13 minutes to cook that thick Rotini, 13 minutes of steaming up my hair which would have been ruined if it hadn't already been ruined by my new BiPAP machine.  Not to mention draining that pasta.        Good grief! It was like having a steam facial!

So glad I have a complete set of these pans...

I added (part of) my Rotini to the crock pot, which by now was looking burned around the edges. I didn't even know you could burn something in a crock pot--on low! Oh, and mozarella   cheese. I think it was supposed to be parmesan, but at this point I wasn't caring too much.

So I fixed me a little bowl, cause by this time it was too late for me to be eating anyway. Especially that. It is too chickeny, of course, too salty, and too dry. I think I may be able to resurrect it tomorrow by adding liquid and pasta. If I have renewed energy.

If you make this, I suggest that you add no salt whatsoever and look for a flat chested chicken.

Don't bother with a shredder. Use two forks or a hand mixer. Or I have a shredder for sale cheap.

At some point I changed my mind. I will not be baking a cake tomorrow. 

A Brief Update Cause It's Past My Bedtime!

There is still no definitive diagnosis of why my blood oxygen level drops too low, too often, even though I breathe supplemental oxygen 24/7. I feel fine as long as I am sitting but get winded upon any activity. 

I have had two sleep studies, resulting in prescription of a BiPAP machine which I am getting used to using at night. It has made a remarkable difference in the way I feel upon awakening in the morning. I am clearer headed, more optimistic, and only hit the snooze button 2 or 3 times instead of about 35.

I also have a new 3 wheeled walker. It is light enough that I can put it in my trunk. It is amazing how much farther and better I can walk when I use it. Susan recommended that I get one, and I researched and found the perfect setup for me. It has a basket for my oxygen machine and a pouch for my Bible and Sunday School notebook and purse. Here's a picture from last Sunday when I used it for the first time.

I don't know which bothers me more--that the doctors can't specifically diagnose my symptoms, or that I can't self diagnose! I can usually come up with a well thought out and reasonable explanation. But not this time, which is okay, cause I'm usually wrong anyway. One possibility, however, is that God is giving me one more run at believing this verse:

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on 

your own understanding." Proverbs 3:5

and this one:

"Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say, Rejoice!

Let your gentleness be known to all. The Lord is near.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by

prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your

requests be known to God.

And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding,

will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Philippians 4:4-7

Thank you for praying for me, dear friends.

"Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days

of my life; and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord

forever."  Psalm 23:6

Trying to Keep Grandma Current

My sweet grandgirls try to include me in their lives. Since they live so far away, it's not always easy. So today Madeline sent me the following picture and said, "Only Murders in the Building" was filming on my block today!"

Several explanations for some of you who just might be less "cool" than I thought I was. "Only Murders in the Building" is one of my favorite shows and stars Steve Martin (my favorite actor), Selena Gomez, and Martin Short.  Madeline lives in an apartment on Broadway in New York, and it's right across the side street from the building where "Only Murders" is set. 

So I glance at the picture on my phone and send back the following message:

"Oh my goodness! I wish I could have been there! Could you see much or anyone?"  Love, Mimi

And then, in the midst of that "group of bystanders" in the picture, I see...none other than...

My favorite actor.  In person. Up Close.

I've told Madeline she can feel free to make a meme or reel or TikTok showing how grandma-ish her Mimi is.

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Disclaimer or maybe Apology

I do NOT love the language in OMITB. In fact I loathe it. I regret that I have become jaded enough to tolerate it.