Friday, April 27, 2018

I Guess I Am A Blonde After All!


When Jack arrived at a restaurant before I did and
got a table, he would tell the hostess that I would be 
arriving and describe me as a blonde!
I don't know why, but he did!
The poor hostess would be rather confused when
I came in with this mane of white hair--until I 
explained that I was the blonde for whom 
a gentleman was waiting!


Well, this week I had an experience with Discount Tire
which might validate my blondeness!
I got up one morning to a very low tire on my car.
I headed straight to DT to have it aired up.
The young man told me I had a big nail in the tire.
He said that since they were not very busy 
they could fix it for me right then.


So I parked and went in to one of my
 favorite businesses. Love DT!
They got to me promptly, and I related my problem--
a nail in the rear passenger side tire.
In no time my car was ready...but they had not
found a nail.
They did think there was a problem with the
valve stem which might have been causing the
leak, so they rebuilt that for me.
I was thankful. Easy fix!


But the next morning the tire was down to 19 pounds.
I went back and told the same guy that had
helped me the day before what had happened.
He was really puzzled and decided to go take a look.
When he got down to look at the tire, I said,
"You do know you're looking at the wrong one."
And he said, "I thought you said it was the 
passenger rear."
And with great embarrassment I said,
"Oh, no! I told you the wrong tire!"
It was the driver's side rear!


What a blonde stunt! 
In my own defense, however, I will remind you 
that a passenger does ride in that rear seat, too.


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Actually, Jack probably told the hostess I was a 
"real pretty blonde," bless his heart.
One day at Silverado someone asked him who I was.
He said, "I don't know but she's real pretty!"
That was unusual, though.
Most of the time he knew exactly who I was!

























Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Remembering Jack, Dad, Gaga


Eight years ago today at 2:00 A.M.
Jack Stovall "burst from the darkness of
Alzheimer's Disease into God's glorious light."
That's how I saw his death.
A glorious homegoing.


We had watched him suffer for ten years.
He fought valiantly. But you don't win against AD.
A line from his obituary reads,
"Even in his illness he was a role model for upright
behavior and tenacious living."


That reminds me of a story which the
Silverado staff loved to tell.
They took Jack with them on all kinds of errands.
If he was riding with a female, he would sit
way over on his side of the car and make absolutely
sure they knew that he was married!


For months and months (maybe years!) the
guest book from Jack's visitation and funeral service
has been missing.
I have wrung my hands!
I was just sure that I would not have 
misplaced it. No...it was probably at the Metzger's.
Actually, I was sure of it. But they weren't. 
Ironically, today I found it--here, in a drawer where I
had placed it, of course.


The reason I wanted to find it, and the reason I'm
telling you about it is that I wanted to be
reminded of all those who attended these services.
And it was such a blessing! 
In the stress of the moment, 
and then with the passing years, 
I had forgotten that some of you were there!
My heart is just overflowing with gratitude
tonight for the love you showed us eight years ago.


Another line I love from his obituary reads,
"Jack's commitment to excellence, integrity, and
God's constant care made a deep and lasting
impression on all who knew him."
The blessings from his devotion still carry over
to all of us today.





This portrait hangs in the office entry.
The plaque reads:

Given in loving memory of
Jack D. Stovall
Stovall Construction, Inc. Employees
2010